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Cynthia's avatar

Dissolving is a word I wrote down this past week. This piece landed hard and gave me the chills all over. Your work comes into my mind often, especially your photographs. You have a most beautiful and haunting aesthetic… I know how healing art can be and I wish you the deepest healing there is my lovely wildflower. 🖤🤍

wildflower's avatar

Thank you so so much, angel. 🖤 I found my portal and now I’m walking through it!!

Cynthia's avatar

I love that for you! 🖤

wildflower's avatar

🖤🖤🖤

Michael Horvich's avatar

"I hope this will be my last piece about dissolving.

The situation that made me hide, that made me keep my head down for the 1st time in my life, is finally over.

Now it’s time to heal, to process and to resurrect."

Samu,

I hope so too! Your introspection, wisdom, and love will help you keep you head held high and renew your ability to float on high as well. Wishing you a Merry Christmas.

Fondly, Michael

Samu's avatar

Just a quick clarification this piece is by Wildflower.

Appreciate the generosity of your words.

Michael Horvich's avatar

Oops. Thanks for the clarification. I totally missed that. May I then say that I found WIldflower's piece to be excellent, deep, and renewed! Fondly, Michael

P.S. Merry Christmas

wildflower's avatar

Thanks so much, Michael. 🤍 I really appreciate your kind words.

Michael Horvich's avatar

Wildflower,

You are very welcome.

Fondly, Michael

Rea de Miranda's avatar

Beautiful healing and renewal, Wildflower.

wildflower's avatar

Thank you so much, Rea. 🩶

Jayd's avatar

Profound and beautiful in a most healing way. The photos say so much by themselves woven with pain. Your feelings are so strong and you will get through this one day at a time. 🖤🤍

wildflower's avatar

Thank you so much, Jayd. From now on it’ll be lighter each day. That’s what I believe. 🤍

Jayd's avatar

The way it needs to be.

Jayd's avatar

🤍🤍🤍

Ross Ion Coyle's avatar

I wish you all the best in re-emergence and regeneration

wildflower's avatar

Thanks so much, Ross. I won’t let this diminish me anymore. 🩶

Ross Ion Coyle's avatar

🙏💚

Brandy Pigeon's avatar

This. Is. Stunning.

I can feel the truth in it — the kind that comes from deep hurt, not distance.

What a gift to turn something so devastating into something that helps all of us see more clearly.

Thank you for this. ❤️‍🩹

wildflower's avatar

Thank you so much, Brandy. This is one of the kindest comments I ever got. I really appreciate this. 🩶

Brandy Pigeon's avatar

Your work carries real depth and integrity — the kind that comes from having lived through something and choosing to stay honest on the page anyway. There’s nothing small or tentative about it. The truth comes through clearly, without armor or excess, and that takes real skill.

As a writer, that kind of accuracy and restraint is something I deeply respect. It’s the standard I try to hold myself to, because when writing lands like that, it helps other people see more clearly too. 💞

wildflower's avatar

Your words mean so much to me. That has always been my intention for writing. 🤍 Thank you so very much, Brandy.

Brandy Pigeon's avatar

I feel that steadiness and honesty in your writing — clear without trying to be. It stays with me. 🤍

wildflower's avatar

🙏🏻🤍🫶🏻

Kelly Trost's avatar

Unbearably beautiful

wildflower's avatar

Thank you so much for your kind words, Kelly!! 🩶

Alicia Kwon's avatar

You go Woman!

wildflower's avatar

Yes!! Thank you so much, Alicia!! 🤍

Felipe C. Barreda's avatar

Nice

wildflower's avatar

Thank you so much, Felipe!! 🩶

nadia g's avatar

so beautiful! how you structure your posts is so cool❤️

wildflower's avatar

Thank you so much, nadia!! I finally found out how to format my posts (🙈😅😂).

Becky Hayward's avatar

Im so glad you found your way through. I’m still in mine. Felt all of this so directly today. “a shadow

haunting

invisible, inaccessible

dissolving

into innocuous invisibility

—you can’t hurt

what’s not

there

anymore”

🥺🥺❤️

wildflower's avatar

Thank you so much, Becky. I’m so glad you could feel this!! 🩶

Becky Hayward's avatar

So good!

wildflower's avatar

Thank you so so much!! 🫶🏻❤️

Manuela Thames's avatar

Beautiful!

wildflower's avatar

Thanks so much, Manuela. 🩶

Jo-Ann Petrarca's avatar

AMEN…

wildflower's avatar

🖤🖤🖤

Lyns McCracken's avatar

I am glad you are healing. This post is hauntingly beautiful in the most perfect way. I love every photo but my favorite is the 3rd one. Chefs kiss 😘

wildflower's avatar

Thanks so so much, Lyns. Sending much love and loads of hugs!! ❤️😘

Shital Morjaria (she/her)'s avatar

The third photograph is beautiful! Love it.

wildflower's avatar

Thanks so much, Shital. This means a lot to me. 🤍

williamphaynes/elliott's avatar

Good blessings and luck on the next phase of your life🙂

wildflower's avatar

Thanks so much, William. All the best for you!! 🤍